Infertility can make you feel isolated, like no one understands or cares, even when you’re crying out for help. Often the circumstances can be too private or too painful to share. You don’t want to sound like a broken record and fear being judged for your times of weakness.
Psalm 69:20 Reproach hath broken my heart; and I am full of heaviness: and I looked for some to take pity, but there was none; and for comforters, but I found none.
Psalm 142:4 I looked on my right hand, and beheld, but there was no man that would know me: refuge failed me; no man cared for my soul.
Sometimes when we need encouragement, we simply need to get alone in a quiet place with God and encourage ourselves in the Lord. Our biblical example is from David in I Samuel 30:6, “And David was greatly distressed…but David encouraged himself in the Lord his God. He knew what it was like to feel isolated and overwhelmed. He also knew to Whom he should turn in order to encourage himself.
“The young king (David) turned to the one true God, his God, for encouragement. There will be times when no one else will be there for us but God.” Dr. David Jeremiah
We never have to be afraid to cry out to the Lord when we are overwhelmed. He already knows and He cares. Jesus said He would give us a Comforter, the Spirit of God.
John 14:16-18 “And I will pray the Father, and he shall give you another Comforter, that he may abide with you for ever; Even the Spirit of truth; whom the world cannot receive, because it seeth him not, neither knoweth him: but ye know him; for he dwelleth in you, and shall be in you. I will not leave you comfortless: I will come to you.”
The Holy Spirit is our consoler, advocate, and comforter. When we cry out to God, His Spirit gives us strength, hope, and support to ease our grief. The Spirit fortifies us! Do we not feel His presence when we cry out?
When we are filled with comfort, it doesn’t end there. Once you fill yourself with courage, spirit, and hope, you can look for others to encourage with what you have learned from the Comforter.
“God does not comfort us to make us comfortable but to make us comforters.” Dr. Jowett (quote taken from Streams in the Desert, January 11th)